Over The Oxer

Feeling in chaos?

At some point, we all feel life is a little overwhelming and chaotic. Did you know that this point can be incredibly transformative? It may be uncomfortable whilst you're in the mire, but it can cause a change in our neurology that sparks a whole new way of thinking - and at a higher level.

Using the Flow State

Have you heard of the Flow State? A state where you are at peak performance and completely in the zone? You're optimistic and focussed without effort. How can you attain this state? Listen to find out!
 
Hakalau episode
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The Mindful Rider - a relaxation

As I'm losing my voice, I've added a pre-recorded relaxation - The Mindful Rider. I hope you enjoy it. And I hope my voice is back next week!
 
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Is it mindset or mental health?

As riders, we have lots of spinning plates that could potentially impact our mindset and/or mental health. What's the difference between mindset, mental health, mental well-being, emotional well-being and a host of other terms (does it really matter the terminology?).
One thing is for sure, our neurological health has many facets and all work best when we keep our equilibrium, despite setbacks and life happening.
 
 
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Hacking happily

Hacking is one of the big 3 requests I get for coaching (along with cantering and competing). How can we calm our nerves and our horses' nerves too? How can we do it as we ride?
 
Have a listen for some quick pointers to try out using just your words....
 
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What if you can't ride? Imposed time off.

Having time off from riding can be potentially disappointing and frustrating and lead to feelings of guilt or being behind schedule. But it needn't be! Having time off may be 1. necessary and 2. beneficial in other ways.
 
Link to the visualisation episode (episode 6) https://www.podbean.com/ew/pb-mpkct-1482cb1
 
Link to inner critic episode / overthinking (episode 13)
https://infoz37.podbean.com/e/overthinking/
 
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Stop multi-tasking: it's a no brainer

Whilst we think that we can multi-task, we actually can't. When we think that we're multitasking, we're breaking off from one task to another. It's not only inefficient, but it's also not good for your brain, find out why on this episode. 
 
 
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Illuminating insights from simple questions

Questions commandeer the brain. Take this example, what colour are you wearing? Your brain is compelled to provide an answer, isn't it? You didn't need to search your memory, force or direct yourself to do it, your mind jumped onto it right away.
 
That's why questions, when phrased a certain way, can help us to get to the bottom of an issue. The answers may surprise you and give you an insightful way of where you need to turn your attention or start doing things differently.
 
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Is stress contagious?!

You might have heart of empathic stress or that stress is contagious. Is there any science behind it? Is it a thing? You might know that anecdotally some people take you from calm to catastrophe easily, well here's what's happening to you and how to prevent it.
 
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Could an emoji help your riding confidence?!!

What are emojis and why do our minds love them (whether we love them or not consciously)? And how can an emoji help riding confidence?! Find out on this episode.
 
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OK unconscious mind, we may need to negotiate

"I know when I'm anxious, I know when I'm doing it, I know it's not logical, but I can't stop." 
 
Well, thank your unconscious mind! It's actively looking for danger. It's the part of the mind that helps you get out of trouble. You know, it's the part of the mind that if you're driving, you can swerve quickly or you can brake quickly. So it's an excellent part of the mind. It's really fabulous. 
 
Our unconscious mind is not really geared up for making change, or certainly not making change easily. It's geared up. For keeping us safe and for survival. And so, because it prefers you to be in a real comfortable comfort zone, your unconscious mind would like you to sit on the sofa and not do too much.
 
In that way, you're keeping safe. Of course, as a human being, we don't want to do that. We want to experience things. We want to challenge ourselves. We want to learn stuff. And so, when we decide we're not just going to sit on a sofa all day,  then this is when the unconscious mind potentially gets a little bit triggered. So here's how to start negotiating with that part of the mind and allow it to feel comfortable when riding.
 
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Riding Anxiety Again!

Riding anxiety pops up for all types of riders, of all skill levels and disciplines.
Why does that happen, when you know it's not logical?
What is happening inside your mind to make you anxious, when you know you'd be a far better rider without the anxiety?
How can you stop your mind being on high-alert anxiety?
Find out all of this on this episode!
 
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The easiest way to change your thoughts

The easiest way to start thinking differently?
Make some tweaks in the words you choose.
Sounds far-fetched?
Not at all. Humans crave meaning and they create meaning by using words.
 
🤩 Change the words = change the meaning = change how you think = change how you ride! 🤩
 
On this episode I give you 3 easy to remember and easy to start using to change your perception of yourself as a rider.
 
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Jaw dropping? What's your jaw got to do with riding?

We hold tension in our bodies when we're cold, when we're nervous and also by habit. Often, we hold tension in parts of the body we don't even know about - the muscles of the head, face and jaw being examples.
 
So how can unclenching those muscles help to improve your riding? Let's find out on this episode!
 
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Interview with EquiPilates, Franklin Method and NLP Coach Emma Stamenkovic

I'm thrilled to be chatting with the hugely knowledgeable Equi-Dynamics: Equipilates, Franklin Method and NLP Coach, Emma Stamenkovic
 
Emma runs Equi-Dynamics, the horse-centred approach to training. Emma is passionate about helping riders improve their partnership with their horse using a variety of mindset and movement methodologies, including Equipilates, Franklin Method and NeuroLinguistic Programming (NLP). By understanding alignment, body awareness, movement and mindset, she helps riders to apply clear and effective aids, therefore communicating more harmoniously with their horses.
 
Emma coaches in a calm, supportive and fun environment, and strives to keep things simple; building horse and rider confidence while also improving the horse’s straightness, self-carriage and performance.
 
Emma is able to coach both on and off the horse, offering various clinics and coaching sessions in-person and online:
Mechanical horse lessons in Derbyshire and Cheshire
Ridden clinics in Derbyshire, Staffordshire and Cheshire
Remote ridden coaching
Remote Equipilates classes (group and individual sessions)
Online membership packages, providing a safe and supportive environment to learn and receive feedback on your own ridden sessions
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